Over the years I've had several guys meet me to let me out of self bondage and I've always had good luck and have never run into any real creeps. So when I heard from a new admirer I could tell from his manner, both talking on the phone and texting, that he would be just as trustworthy as the other guys. (Well, come to think of it, there were a couple creeps in the early days and there was that one guy who kept refusing to untie me but that was long ago. Since then I've had so much experience meeting people and my ability to spot unreliable and risky people has increased considerably.)